
Sometimes, my friends, all you can do is make lemonade.
Sunday was Share A Square Day in Denton, Texas. I had talked Michelle, who owns a totally awesome local bistro called “banter,” into allowing us to use her space for the day (I didn’t have to twist her arm very hard). She generously offered free iced tea and 10% off of any meal for those who came to crochet. In the cool comfort of this bistro, we could eat delicious food, crochet, sip coffee, and talk and eat and eat.
Joanna, at my favorite local vintage store “Alter Ego“, even offered to collect squares and give a 10-25% discount to people who brought in squares! This was a sweet deal, because Joanna has great taste in vintage clothing (if women just hadn’t had such tiny waists back then). Her friend Al, at Copy Pro printed banners and flyers to put around town, and we placed them everywhere that would let us do it.
I went to a crochet group, and I called people. I sat at another coffeehouse crocheting one morning and telling people what we are doing. To the Denton Record Chronicle, I submitted a photo and a pretty decent writeup about the day. Not only did I submit it on-line, but I walked it in the door, because my husband said I should use “both a belt and suspenders” on this one.
I even went down to Frenchy’s (I mentioned him in another post). He has orange trucks on which he puts signs telling about events in town. I talked to his wife, who seemed quite enthusiastic, and went away thinking that there would be signs on those trucks to direct people to Share A Square Day. Signs on Frenchy’s trucks would have been a sure recipe for success. I wore myself out in the Texas heat with all the legwork I was doing. I did everything I knew to do.
BUT, the local newspaper didn’t give it quite the coverage I was hoping. They were kind enough to give it a mention, for which I am grateful. The basics of What, Where, When. weren’t enough to peak anyone’s interest. As far as those orange trucks? Nah. Not a single word.
So, it was with great resignation that I loaded my car on Sunday. I was philosophical about it, because several friends had mentioned they would join me for an hour or two, and I figured I would get a lot of crocheting done on my own.
Just as I was getting ready to shut down my computer, POP! It went off on its own! The power was out, and then we heard sirens. As I drove across town, there were no traffic lights. When I reached banter, there were people inside, but no lights!
I went ahead to set up, because I just knew that the power company would have those lights back on in an hour or so (and I was waaaay early, as I always am). banter has the feel of a cavern, so I knew it would be cool for awhile, even without the air conditioning. Underneath the skylight, there was plenty of light to see to crochet.

I set out everything at the tables, thinking we would go over to the comfy couches to sit and work. I had brought a few of the squares that had been brought to Alter Ego (donated by Rebecca T. and Isabelle—-lovely work, ladies!).
The power didn’t come back on! So, I called the local friends who had said they would be down to tell them not to come (there was no point in the restaurant remaining open, if they couldn’t serve food). My friend Linda S., in Euless called to offer to drive to town, and I wouldn’t let her. By that time, we were hearing rumors that there had been a fire at the power plant. Mary C, a delightful woman I had met at the Senior Center, brought down a knitted square (pictures tomorrow), but I wouldn’t let her stay either. I’ll join the ladies at the Senior Center tomorrow to work on an afghan.
I sat crocheting working on another afghan, and I almost got it finished. By this time sweat was pouring down between my shoulder blades (did I mention that I am MENOPAUSAL?!!!).

Fortunately, Peter and Michelle were good company, and I didn’t bite anyone’s head off. Peter is very tall, and Michelle made him squat down so she wouldn’t look short.

We regained electricity some time around three-thirty. As the restaurant cooled off, I begged for a mocha to get my fix of caffeine. Isabelle and Ali joined me (Isabelle had made some squares, and she took a few to put the rim around them). Ali expressed interest in learning to crochet, so Isabelle took one of my hooks home to teach her.

Hey, I lived through it. There were good parts. And, I just keep remembering the last thing my friend, the late great storyteller Gamble Rogers said to me before his death, “Life is what happens when you are making other plans.”
Peter and I agreed that things could have been a lot worse. We could have been working the switchboard at the Electric Company that day!
We’ve gotten quite a few square in from different places over the last few days. I’ll post pictures tomorrow. But, right now I have to go watch television (tonight is The Closer, and I wouldn’t miss Brenda for all the lemonade in China)
To show you that there are a lot of people who do care about this program, here’s a list of some of the donors and their locations (no links):
Karen B. in MO added a quote from Mother Teresa with her squares:
“We can do no great things, only small things with great love.”
ARIZONA
Talina N.
CALIFORNIA
Vickie A
Sandee C.
Tracy Federal Credit Union
Meg’s Garden
COLORADO
Janet C
Dorothy V
CONNECTICUT
Priscilla M.
FLORIDA
Barbara
GEORGIA
Sherry L.
HAWAII
Carol O.
IDAHO
Janet B
Linda M.
ILLINOIS
Margaret B.
Donna N.
Camille S.
Judy M.
Carol O.
Prisco Center Senior Exercise Group
INDIANA
Tina S.
KANSAS
Sharon D.
Laura L.
MARYLAND
Nicole
MASSACHUSETTS
Deb E.
Liz S.
MICHIGAN
Julie O.
Red Berry Bookshop
MISSOURI
Maizee (I tried to send a thank you, but it was returned to me)
Karen B.
NEW HAMPSHIRE
Janice B
Laura
Rose
NEW MEXICO
Casey K
OKLAHOMA
Linda H.
Kathy
PENNSYLVANIA
Rick C.
Gloria M
TEXAS
Terri B
The Happy Hookers Crochet Club
Tracy J.
Connie K.
Jimmy M.
Joan S.
Mary C.
Irma B.
J.
Wanda S.
Claudie L.
Katie P.
Elfie F.
Pat C.
Donna B.
Donna B.
Mary V.
Ruth O.
Raynah
Isabelle
Rebecca T.
Alter Ego Vintage Shop
Copy Pro
Banter
The Colony Public Library
Connie C.
Cindy
Doris M.
Verna R.
Elaine
Shelly T.
WASHINGTON
Marcia B.
Margaret D
Margie H.
The Kiedrowski’s
Jina M.
Terri M.
Donna O.
Washington DC
Michelle H.
WISCONSIN
Holly W.
WEST VIRGINIA
Stephanie S.
Brooke
WYOMING
Christine S.
CANADA
Melissa G.
Matty
TAIWAN
Stacy H.
SPAIN
Monica H.
SWEDEN
Careta (I’m not sure I’m spelling your name right, and you gave me no contact information, but I thank you!)
Mixed With Sugar (you told me where you were, and I’ve lost the e-mail!)
[EDITOR'S NOTE: The Share A Square project has ended, and the afghans were delivered on July 7th, 2008. Although we will not continue that project, an exciting NEW endeavor, called the Good Medicine Project is in progress for summer camp 2009. We hope you will join us.]
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Awwww, Shelly! I’m getting afraid you are “hanging around” me too much and catching some of my Murphy’s Law!!! I agree, though, working customer service for the electric company during a power outage would not be fun!!!
I love Brenda, too..although I think I am three episodes behind. I TiVo them because the hubby has some other combat show he likes to watch at the same time. I watched the episode with the WMD suits last night. It was a funny one!
Jessica
You can keep your Murphy’s Law! I love Brenda so much, that I talk like her sometimes. Actually, she talks like ME, because I think her accent is put on. But, I run around saying, “Thank you.” just like she does.~skt
Oh my gosh — of all days for the power to fail! Is it as miserable there as it is here — we’ve been in the 100s since last Thursday.
Good for you for hanging in there.
Yes, it’s been miserably hot. Getting out to drive around is just awful! I need to go to the grocery store, but I can’t make myself take the trip
When we run out of toilet paper, I’ll go.~skt
OK, you know I had written a lot about Murphy’s law in recent months. I’ll take Murphy back for a while, I had no idea he would run to you!
You’re getting pretty darn good at making lemonade. Maybe if you would start drinking real lemonade instead of those mochas… The newest afghan is GORGEOUS. The flashlights shining through them are going to make beautiful patterns.
Rome wasn’t built in a day – or without a bit of sweat, though probably it was non-menopausal.
Actually, Murphy and I have always been well acquainted. Rome wasn’t built in a day, and hopefully these afghans won’t take as long to build as Rome! Yes, flashlights through these afghans will be fascinating for those kids.~skt
Of all times for Murphy to find you—of course that is how Murphy works.
That glass of lemonade looks refreshing—I need that for these hot days we are having.
You will get there some days you might wonder when but it will happen with all the support you have.
While you have all this going on, please make certain you take care of YOU.
I could have used that lemonade on Sunday, but we were trying to conserve the cool in the refrigerators. There IS a lot of support for this project, which was the only reason I made it through the day~skt
Well, shoot! What a day, huh?
I think signs on Frenchy’s trucks is a grand idea…. sorry he didn’t bite.
I am working on my squares here because baby, I care! Wish I was there to sweat with you in the power outage heat. NO wait. Make that, I wish you were HERE with me to crochet in the cool summer of Holland.
Next time, contact the churches maybe? I know the Mormons would jump on this project.
I’m sorry Frenchy didn’t do anything about it, too. But, it was a LOT of words to put on a truck. I wish you could come crochet under the air conditioner, but I wouldn’t have let anyone stay in that heat. I’ll come to Holland and crochet! I guess I should find some Mormons…~skt
I like Paul’s way of thinking – it could have been worse….and someone else wants to learn to crochet…woooooo!
I am excited to send my parcel at the end of the month – but then I’ll be on a slow down as I just started my son’s Christmas ripple afghan and I’m doing my sweater too…but I’ll still make them off and on – don’t fret, this will be a success!
I know you have a lot going on, Sweet Tea. Don’t you worry about doing other things. I love to get help, but I want y’all to have real lives, too:lol:~skt
I’m sorry it didn’t go as you envisioned, especially all your effort to plan it. But looking at the list of donors tells me that you’ve got the determination to get this done!
Good Luck (I know I said that before, but it really is a great cause and a great idea!)
That’s why I listed the donors, Frigga. To remind ME that there is a lot of help out there:wink:~skt
What a great up-date. You are such a trooper. Does anyone out there need a donation of yarn? I’m still willing to donate to support the many who are working so hard. Have a great day.
These updates take a long time to put together! I’ll ask if people need donations, but probably another mention down the road would help (right now there is still momentum…but it might slow down, ya know). I appreciate you, even if you don’t crochet. Keep making me laugh and it’s all good.~skt
Honey, when the day handed you lemons, you made lemonade. Next time, the lemonade will be already, iced and going down smooth.
Don’t let this discourage you! I’ll be there soon, I’ll come help put those squares together!!
I’m not discouraged…but you can get here quick! We’ll start getting those afghans together in a snap~~skt
Oh I am sorry that the universe conspired. If I could make squares that were actually 2 dimensional rather than turning into stuffed animals (long story) I would put all my grandmas’ teachings to good use and add another country to your list – but I think my crochet does more harm than good…
Some days, I think MY crochet is the same way, Jeanie. Thanks for the good wishes. I hope the Universe will quit having mood swings~skt
Sometimes we don’t see the fruit until it ripens! Did you try the radio yet? You know you are a professional storyteller!
I know, Rosemarie, but I don’t know if the radio is the medium for this. I’m afraid that I think it’s a cooler project than radio listeners will believe that it is~skt
Hi there,
I’m so sorry about the contact information, My name is Carola, not Careta and I’m the one who sent off a few squares from Sweden, I also realize I forgot to put tags o my squares. I have every intention of sending more, so I’m going to try to be a bit more informative then!